“Just because you’re on vacation doesn't mean your children's personalities change,” said Morgan Kavanaugh. “It’s not going to be all sunshine and roses.” The 41-year-old West St. Paul lawyer recently returned from a two-week road trip with his wife, Nicole, and their five kids, ages 14 to 3. His life is shaped by service — to his family, his parish (St. Joseph in West St. Paul) and his city.