German bishop urges church debate on blessing same-sex unions

| January 24, 2018 | 7 Comments
Same-sex partners exchange wedding bands

Two same-sex partners exchange wedding bands during a 2017 ceremony at the civil registry office in Munich. CNS photo/Marc Mueller, EPA

The vice president of the German bishops’ conference has urged a debate on whether Catholic clergy should bless same-sex unions.

“I’m concerned with fundamental questions of how we deal with each other; although ‘marriage for all’ differs clearly from the church’s concept of marriage, it’s now a political reality,” said Bishop Franz-Josef Bode of Osnabruck.

“We have to ask ourselves how we’re encountering those who form such relationships and are also involved in the church, how we’re accompanying them pastorally and liturgically.”

In the fall, the first gay weddings were conducted in Germany, following a June 30 vote by the parliament to allow full same-sex marriage.

“Same-sex relationships are generally classified as a grave sin in the church, but we need to think how we can differentiate,” Bishop Bode said in a Jan. 10 interview with the Neue Osnabrucker Zeitung daily.

“Shouldn’t we be fairer, given that there is much that’s positive, good and right in this? Should we not, for example, consider a blessing — something not to be confused with a wedding ceremony?”

He said the church should discuss same-sex unions in more detail and recognize “silence and taboo” settled nothing.

Canons 1055-1057 of the church’s Code of Canon Law define marriage as an indissoluble union between a man and woman.

The June vote to allow same-sex marriage was condemned by German church leaders, including Archbishop Heiner Koch of Berlin, chairman of the church’s Marriage and Family Commission, who said in a statement same-sex cohabitation could be “valued through other institutional arrangements.”

However, it was approved by the country’s Protestant church. Some lay Catholic groups, including the We Are Church organization, have called for same-sex couples to be offered church blessings.

In May 2015, the German church amended its employment rules to permit lay staffers to keep their jobs after they were divorced and remarried without an annulment or if they formed a gay union.

In his interview, Bishop Bode also said he believed fuller use should be made of lay “pastoral coordinators” to make up for a shortage of ordained clergy.

He added that women should be taking on “leadership roles in the churches,” and called for a Vatican commission currently considering women deacons to expand its work.

“This commission is very much exploring tradition, but I think we shouldn’t just start there,” the bishops’ conference vice president said.

“We must face the fact that women are doing much responsible work in the church today. I’d like to see a conversation between experts and competent bishops — and as much contact as possible with the group dealing with these issues in Rome. This question will ultimately have to be decided by a council or synod.”

Twenty-six countries have legalized same-sex marriage.

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  • Charles C.

    Seriously? Blessing what the Church declares to be sinful? And the only justification is that a lot of it is going on?

    No, I can’t imagine there will be a debate. We don’t debate whether water is wet either.

  • @disqus_aHuNarpqjb:disqus @Charles C.This is Germany,You would be amassed what goes on here!I would be amassed if there is not a debate.God willing a few of the more traditional bishops will also speak out against this plan.

    • Charles C.

      Dear Myke Rosenthal-English,

      Maybe I should save my money and take a trip to visit Germany. That would broaden my view of the world.

      Still, I thought I was a member of the Universal Church. It seems that each country or area is creating it’s own Church.

      Pope Francis tells us that circumstances may allow unrepentant adulterers to take Communion, and our Archbishop Hebda has just published an article here with the title “Perspective Can Change Everything.”

      Maybe there aren’t any rules anymore.

      • Dear Charles,
        “Maybe there aren’t any rules anymore.”Unfortunatly its beginning to seem that way!After all if an adulterer can now receive Holy Communion with the Bishop’s concent,then why not ANYONE in mortal sin?That is the confusion which is being sown by Our Bishops.Clarification of the teachings of Our Lord need to be forthcoming.

  • Sodomy is always a sin.

  • zaagitoon

    Dismissing those in same-sex marriages who make a lifetime commitment to love and honor their spouse — dismissing them as “sinners” is wrong.

    • Charles C.

      Well, dismissing anyone as a sinner is wrong. First, because “dismissing” has such a final effect, and second, because all of us are sinners. Everyone has a chance to be saved from their sins. It’s not useful to describe a person as a sinner any more than it is to describe them as human, we all fit.

      But to make sure I understand, are you saying that those in a Gay “marriage” are not committing a sin in the eyes of the Church? If so, would you explain why you believe that? The Church has said frequently that it is a sin to have sexual relations outside of a valid marriage, and that marriage is between a man and a woman.

      Has the Church said that those in a same-sex “marriage” are not committing a sin? if so, could you point me to where it has said that?